Magnus Makes Friends With Maizey

When I brought Magnus home, Maizey was somewhat less than thrilled. I thought she may have a hard time adjusting to this big of a change, but she has really done awesome.

"You're right Crazymomlady, this little guy isn't so bad!""

At first she really didn’t know what to do with this little ball of fluff that was dying to play with her. Basically she spent the first two days running from him. She never reactively barked or lunged at him, but she certainly didn’t want him getting close to her.

But today I am happy to say they are playing nicely. They played tug for the first time yesterday, and today she deigned to be in the same picture with him!

You can see even in the pictures that she still isn’t her normal perky self when she is right next to him, but I am leaving the choices up to her how much interaction they have she is starting to accept him and even initiate play.

And now at the end of the day they are both sleeping at the end of the bed, the very picture of peace.

I am so proud of my little girl. Even though it is a source of stress for her, it’s good because she is learning to manage nervousness in a way she never had the opportunity to before. Since he isn’t a threat to her and he also isn’t going away we have a chance to work together on building calm confidence in a lot of new ways.

And it really is paying off, it makes me so happy to see her enjoying him. I know I have to be careful that he doesn’t catch her reactivity, that he doesn’t cause so much stress that she is further traumatized, and that they build a happy friendship. But so far I just couldn’t be happier with how things are coming along.

So you can see for yourselves, this is a short clip of the progress we have seen. You will notice in the “EEEW. . puppies are gross” clip that Maizey was feeling quite stressed, but I love the very last shot of her. It’s as if she is saying, “See crazymomlady? I played with him, and it was fun! Aren’t you proud of me?”

And I am, so very proud of my little princessface!

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  • Ricky

    Mom says this gives her hope that I could learn to like a new sibling one day!

    • http://www.lessonsfrom4legs.com Katie

      Well Ricky I think you may like to have someone to play with! I know it’s hard to get used to another dog in the house, but Maizey seems to be starting to really enjoy it now. Who knows you may want to try it one day!

  • Priscilla

    So glad that Maizey is playing with Magnus at last. It’s a great progress and yes, you should be proud of your young lady. She’s sweet!

    • http://www.lessonsfrom4legs.com Katie

      Priscilla, so funny you called Maizey a young lady! She has really matured over the last few days, and so fast too! But I am not ready for my “baby girl” to grow up, I want her to stay my sweet little girl forever. Guess we can’t fight time flying by though!

      Your young lady is growing up fast too! It seems she has left her gangly teenager stage behind and has become a beautiful young lady. Thanks for commenting!

  • http://twitter.com/lbrennec Lisa B

    We are thinking about bringing another Cavalier into our home. I am not sure how Charlie will react.

    http://charlie-the-cavalier.blogspot.com/

    • http://www.lessonsfrom4legs.com Katie

      Thanks for commenting Lisa! It is a big decision, and I would never have done it if I didn’t think it was the best thing for Maizey. But now that the decision is made I think it’s working out. Just hope it stays that way! Thanks again for reading, hope to hear from you again!

  • http://twitter.com/lbrennec Lisa B

    I love the part where the one dog is perched on the couch and other is playing!

  • http://www.cavalier-a-day.blogspot.com Beth

    It’s great that they’re getting along now! They were so cute in the video. Who was the third dog near the beginning of it?

    • http://www.lessonsfrom4legs.com Katie

      Hey Beth, thanks for commenting again! We love to hear from all our readers! I forgot to put Charley in the credits. He is our part time boy. We have him whenever his mom (who is also my mom) travels. He is great with puppies and I know he has a lot to teach Magnus. Thanks for reading!

  • Marie

    Awww…persistence pays off for Magnus. Pretty cute. I’m really glad you’re getting video of them now. It’s amazing how fast they grow up and you’ll love being able to go back and watch these first few days.

    • http://www.lessonsfrom4legs.com Katie

      Thanks marie, I’m glad to have the video I have of Maizey, but looking back I don’t have enough! They are so funny when they are still learning to use their bodies, and are so clumsy.;)) Can’t wait for you to meet the little guy, so looking forward to next weekend!

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